Miserable Mass

My husband was out of town, and of course, it was time for Sunday mass. I had to make many decisions, including "Do I dare attempt to go to mass, alone, with 3 kids who sometimes behave, and sometimes don't?" Then I read this article online, and felt convicted that yes, I should.

Then came the many other questions. Do I make the girls take a nap or skip it? I wagered that if they skipped it, they'd be tired and hopefully sleep during mass, instead of having their energy to be stubborn. Then there was the "Do we sit on the 3rd to 5th row like we usually do? Or go for the back?" I decided the 3rd to 5th was best for two reasons. If I needed to dash out with one child, I knew the people who normally sit around me would keep an eye on the other 2 for a moment. And if I tried to sit in the back, out of routine, the older two would flip. And the final,  "Can I get to confession without Jon to help watch the kids?" Some friends offered, but I ended up taking Abby in with me and the other two sat right outside, reading like angels. (Thank God!)

So... mass began. I had prepared them that it was Pentecost Sunday, that there would be red, that we would talk about Pentecost, the Holy Spirit and Tongues of Fire. I told them all about it, in hopes that they'd listen for these familiar key words. They were struggling, or maybe it was just me. I was very tense, I know that. The no naps didn't mean they fell asleep.

Somehow, right after the consecration, as everyone is kneeling, two girls started in on a screaming fight at each other. I THINK Hannah was taking the crayon and paper Abby had, and Abby was yelling "MINE!!!" I quickly told Zach to sit in the pew, and tried to dash out as fast as I could. I don't remember if Hannah was screaming on the way out, or Abby crying or what, but I'm sure I had the look of "Lord, keep me from killing them" on my face. We went outside the church (not the lobby, out.side, like beyond the glass doors, the walls, everything. They both got a ... you know ;-) and then I got down and gave them both a stern talking. Gave Hannah 3 seconds to stop crying; she did. I told her that I would not be afraid to bring her back out if she dared act like that again, and I told Abby she was going to stay in my arms the rest of the mass.

My husband has had to take Hannah out a few times in the past, and I knew he has spanked her in the past. She always tries to pull one on me during mass, and usually he takes her at that point. I felt like I HAD to finally show her that I WAS in charge and I mean business. So, I almost never spank in public (or ever for that matter), but felt it had to happen today. I do realize that she was likely tired, but this wasn't an issue caused from tiredness. It was simply aggravating her sister. (When it's over-tired, she can't stop crying by 3)

After I got home, I realized that the side doors to the church were open (no a/c, so fans in the doors). I pray no one heard us! They were pretty good the rest of mass I suppose. But I felt majorly defeated, discouraged, and embarrassed. I felt I owed the couple behind me an apology, because I know they were probably the most distracting they've ever been today, even though that couple has always been so sweet and understanding. I did apologize, and yet again, they were sweet and understanding and encouraged me.

Then we walked out of mass and Father said "wow, there was a lot of drama going on there in the back at the end!" I'm not sure if he was talking to me, or trying to talk to the kids. I tried to mutter something along the lines of yeah, it's hard when daddy's not here and I'm sorry. Jon swears this priest loves kids and has told him that before, but sometimes I don't feel it. Then he proceeded with "I'll message you back soon too." Apparently he got the email I sent him this morning about "Would you like to come from dinner, sincerely, our family, with the 3 kids that sit near the front at the Life Teen mass." HA! He's probably thinking "Yeah, I'll reply with 'I have no time in the immediate future' or 'What is she thinking getting pregnant with the way her kids acted in mass?'"

So, next time, and there will be a next time, I'm not sure what I'll try... make sure they get naps? Don't sit in the front? Or maybe just skip mass all together? I do feel very defeated and discouraged, but I'm trying to remember the article I read recently where it talked about discouragement is not of God, but of Satan.

News and travel

Ok, really, I don't like the new blogger format... But I guess they forgot to ask my opinion huh?

So, life has been busy. The first bit of news is we're expecting baby #4!! We're due around Christmas and couldn't be any more excited. We were really wanting another baby and God's timing is just always perfect.

Next, we've actually been traveling! Last week, some good friends of ours watched our 3 kids for the day while we went to Trier. Trier is about an hour away driving, but we went on a tour with the USO, taking the train and learning how to use the German train system. It was a lot of fun and we learned a lot about the train and Trier. The biggest part of going to Trier was thousands of people are pilgriming there over the course of the last month to see the robe of Jesus. It was brought over by St. Helena and is believed to be the robe that Jesus wore. There are many rumors about it, such as that Mary made it for him when He was a boy, and it grew with him. This could have been the same robe that the woman touched the hem of his garment. It was amazing to see them hem of it. That was seriously the part that amazed me the most. It was a really neat, once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.

 This is Jon and I in front of the Porta Nigra, the only remaining part of the city gate.

Then this past Saturday we finally went to Heidleberg. It's an hour away, and has a large, beautiful castle. What more could a family want on a beautiful day out. We did lots of walking and I swore the kids would pass out on the way home, but they didn't. Here's a picture of the beautiful castle.

 The really neat bridge.

 Sibling love! :)

There's a lot more going on, but I'll save it for another post, as I have 30 minutes to shower and get ready to be out of here. ;-) Always on the go, which is why this is always behind! ;-)

Avoiding the Hole

Wow, when did blogger change? Has it really been that long since I last posted?? Hello new, and annoying look. Everything about Google has changed (blogger, gmail, etc.) It's very hard on my eyes. I guess that's a sign I'm getting old.

Anyway, that was not the point of my post. Quite frankly, I"m not sure what the point of my post will be tonight. Has anyone else noticed what I've noticed? This hole that sucks you in. I'm on an online forum, there's the crazy facebook, and every woman's favorite, pinterest. I check all of these plus email daily, several times a day. But then, there's more. I see on facebook this great mothering article everyone is sharing, or the awesome homeschool blog my friend just discovered, or my husband says "Did you hear the news about XYZ?" And I'm off to google that. So I go to start reading, and I'm in the hole, getting sucked in.

I'm beginning to realize that while blogs and pinterest are great and offer incredible ideas to use, I need to be leery. They are sucking my time, and making me feel bad about the things I can't accomplish. There was this great article published recently, and I think so much of it rang true.

I'm also noticing another trend in my life, that I hear of something "good, noble, holy," whatever it is, and I think "that's awesome, I should try it." For example, recently some friends talked about how they felt convicted to dress nicely for church. I mentioned how I've always felt that way for Sunday, but weekday mass, not as much. Then I realize how stupid that sounded, because during the week and on Sunday, I am before Christ, and should look nice.

But then, while I was thinking this over and trying to decide if this was for me, God smacked me. He said (something like)  "I was talking to her about that. Not you. I've called you to work on so many other things right now, that how you dress during weekday mass is not important right now. Right now, I want to see you at week day mass, that's it. I don't care how you look. It's your heart that I want. And aside from that, I want you to work on your relationship with your children and me. Your dress isn't important right now. I want you praying for your husband and your children more. I want you teaching them Bible verses. If you are dressed modestly, I don't care if you're in jeans or a dress, or if your hair is covered or thrown in a scrunchie with your fly-aways nailed down with hairspray. I just want you. Seeking after Me."

So, with that said, there are some women I "know" in my life, that I want to get to know better. Women who seem so... well, holy. I am not saying they are perfect, but they are similar to what I envision being one day. And I don't mean they are great at cooking everything from scratch, every meal on the table at 5:30, house perfect, are on top of homeschooling, etc.

No, I mean they know how to talk to their children and have their children listen, they know how to use gentle voices with their children, and you can tell they are instilling great spiritual ideas in their children, like that beauty is on the inside, not physically. THESE are the women I want to get to know, I pray I can get to know better, so that I can learn by their examples. I'm sure they've worked long and hard at it, and I want to learn by their example. These are the areas I feel God is wanting me to work on right now. Not the cute craft ideas on pinterest, or the awesome themed party this girl on that blog threw for her one year old who doesn't even understand it's her birthday. No, it's teaching my children the basics of how to live a good, holy, Catholic life.

Life changes

As some of you may know, our life recently took a big change. My good friend here had a successful VBA2C (Vaginal birth after 2 C-sections) on 2/29. I was so happy and excited for her. However, this past Monday, the day after his baptism, her newborn ended up in the hospital with RSV. I quickly volunteered to take her older two kids, ages 4 and 6. None of us realize how severe it was. They transferred him to another hospital this week and at this point, it looks like he'll still be in the hospital for another 2 weeks. I am going to continue to keep her children. Thankfully they flew her husband back from deployment, but they need to focus on the newborn, and they feel the older two are in good hands. (I hope so! ;-))

This has been a BIG change for us. I now have to make sure we're up every morning at 7, get everyone breakfast and dressed, walk 5 kids to school at 8, come back home, walk back at 10:30 to pick one up, and then again at 2:30. It's not bad, just much different than we're use to. At least I'm getting my exercise in ;-) I also managed to take four to the grocery store the other day. Completely survived, after dealing with Hannah screaming for about 5 minutes that she wanted a car grocery cart.

Her kids are very well behaved, and falling in to our schedule, routine, and rules pretty well. The first few days I was "easy" on them, but since learning it will likely be another two weeks, I've insisted they start following some of our rules, etc.

It's opened a lot of dialogue for my husband and me. It does give us an idea of what having 5 would be like... Yes, the ages would be different and they'd all be ours, but the logistics of getting places with 5 would be similar (ie is it easier to just walk to mass or load 5 in car seats today... and HOW are we going to get through mass with 5 kids?). There is still the same amount of dishes and laundry, and oh boy! Am I failing on that!! Plus baths for 5 kids, and cooking for 7 would be the same, which I'm managing, but it's still challenging. I'm VERY grateful that some people have offered to bring us a few meals here and there, along with the mom and dad. Plus, dealing with whining and tattle-tailing, and the if we were to have 5 kids while living here, and how that would be and feel. (cramped! I already couldn't stand where we live, but to add more kids, oh wow.)

It's also opened our eyes to what adoption and foster care could be like in ways. Obviously I realize they would have a lot more issues involved most likely, but this must be similar, my kids and the other kids learning to get along, learning who's the alpha dog, learning what's acceptable in the house and not, etc. etc. And since we've definitely considered both as well, it's been somewhat eye opening.

Like I said, it's given us a new insight on a lot of things, and left me thinking, imagining, and most importantly, praying. It shows me that my desires for more children are still there, as I'm loving having a full house (now that I'm getting use to it). We've never really been in a position where we've had the chance to pray and seek God about adding to our family, so this is a brand new adventure in and of itself, and it's hard to know what God's saying. We know that we are suppose to wait for a bit longer at least. I think for now, we'll just get through the next 2 weeks, then worry about the rest. ;-)

With that said, homeschooling has been put on a back burner for right now. Oh one of the joys of homeschooling, and one of the joys of just doing preschool. My kids and one of the others are very interested in Shadows lately, so I may try to do some research on shadows and try to make a learning experience out of that, if I can find the time. I'm dying to do some crafting, but that's been on hold as well. At 7-7:30 all kids are in bed, so I TRY to finish dishes, and all but pass out by 8. Coffee has become my best friend again. Speaking of which, I think my fresh pot is just done, so I'm off to pour a cup. Hope everyone has a blessed Sunday.

And most importantly, please, keep baby K in your prayers, along with his parents J & J.

Short homeschooling thought

I saw this in a comment I read on a blog, and I loved the idea so much, I wanted to share (and write it down to remember). This woman was talking about being stationed in Germany and homeschooling, and how each summer, they do a unit study. The first summer was on WWI, and they visited many WWI places. This summer will be on Middle Ages, with a goal to visit a new castle each week. And next summer will be WWII, including a trip to Normandy Beach. There are so many places we could visit here, that if I could come up with a "unit study" like that, and focus where we're going on that, and give the kids more info before we go, it might be really worth while! Loved the idea!

Six months

It is hard to believe we have officially been here the first 6 months. Everyone tells you "The first 6 months are the hardest." So we're hoping that things look up from here. We can't say it's been "HARD". Parts have, but the past 2 months have been relatively easy. We're settling in to somewhat of a routine. Homeschooling was doing great, up until the week on Love, and then I've fallen behind because life God busy. Hoping to pick back up this week, as the kids have been bugging me to do school. I have goals for the coming week, hoping to take each day at a time.

Goals:

1. Get up with husband, if not, no later than 8am.

1b. Go to bed by 10 most nights, 11 at the absolute latest.

2. Have everyone get dressed, make beds, comb hair and brush teeth every morning.

3. Work out at least 4x this week.

4. Complete my Bible study before Thursday.

5. Do school at least 4 days this week, including reading books, some crafts, and some fun time.

6. Go outside and play at least 4 days this week.

7. Go to mass on Wednesday.

8. Work on my diabetes management more.

9. Finish crafts and get them mailed

10. Finalize what curriculum we hope to use for K next year.

Anyway, Germany... do we love it? No, not at all. We really don't like it at all. We're trying our best to be content. Jon apparently felt it when we first moved in, and I'm really beginning to feel closed in and cramped in our little apartment with three kids and so many toys, and no real place to do school. We're praying about possibly moving in the fall, or after. We'll see what comes and how we feel then. We can't move any earlier than Sept. We also hate that we don't have a backyard, and our kids have to play on a playground, with us out there, and a bunch of much older kids. I'm really trying to make sure I take the kids out in the morning when the older kids aren't out there. I hate the language barrier, and I'm just not picking up German like I had hoped. The idea of traveling is all good, but you have to have money, and a family that wants to do it. My husband doesn't like to travel at all unfortunately. So, we're stuck here for 3 years, and are doing the best we can to make it a positive experience as much as possible. Hopefully the summer will bring more joy.

However, I do feel very blessed in that I LOVE our church on base and our Catholic community. Right after I started here, the Catholic Women's group, which I had already joined, created a new Bible study for "Moms and Lil Catholics". Through this group, I have met some awesome, very conservative Catholic moms who all have kids the same age as mine, and are all about the same age as me. This is a very new experience for me, and I'm LOVING it and feeling so blessed. Also, my husband seems to like their husbands and able to relate to them, which is a very new thing for us as well.

Anyway, with that said, mass is in about an hour and a half, and I need to run and start waking up kids and getting them ready. Happy Sunday to all!

St. Valentine's Day from our Family

My entire life, I've never really been a fan of Valentine's Day. There were two years that were special and I liked, but that was it. One was in high school. I had done an impromptu speech about Valentine's Day and proceeded to say how I hated it and why. That Valentine's Day, I received two sets of flowers in the front office, one from my father- which he'd never done my whole life- and one from a "secret admirer". I later learned it was a friend, but it meant so much to me. That was my senior year of high school.

The other year I specifically remember was when my husband and I were dating, almost engaged. I had spent the weekend in SC where he lived, and went home because I had to work. I somehow then had two days off, so turned around and drove back to SC less than 24 hours later. He came home after work, and I was standing at his door, waiting for him, completely surprising him.

Other than that, Valentine's has never been any thing special or important to me or us. However, I decided this year to take it as an opportunity to teach my children about love. Last week, instead of focusing on a letter for school, we focused on love. We memorize 1Cor 13:4&5, "Love is patient, Love is kind, Love is never rude." (The parts that are important and easy for a 3 & 4 year old to memorize!). We talked about how one part of loving others, is praying for others, and finally made this.

It has names of several people we know, mostly family since we rarely get to pray for them by name. My husband is one of 14, I'm one of 5, about 15 grandkids on his side, almost 6 on mine, so that makes it difficult to pray for even each family individually. Normally our evening prayers include "Mommy, daddy, Z,H,A, Nanny, Poppy, Grandma, Grandpa, and all our aunts, uncles, cousins and friends." This way, we listed each individual family, and several of the kids' friends (and mine) that my kids suggested. Each evening at dinner, we each draw one and pray for that person or family. I feel that God will use this to be praying for people that need our prayers when they do. Tonight was cool because I happened to draw my mom, my husband his mom, and H drew my husband's dad. It felt nice and appropriate for Valentine's Day. :)

Last week, we also made Valentine cards. I wanted to make more, but it was very difficult to get 3 kids and husband to do finger prints, so only 12 people are lucky enough to get a late V-Day card from us. And I say late because they've been in the van to go to the Post Office since Saturday, and finally got mailed today. Oops! (click on the picture to see enlarged if you'd like.)

After not liking Valentine's Day much myself, I wanted to be sure my kids' got to have the experience of Valentines Day. It started with lunch, when they got red heart ice cubes in their milk, which then turned pink. They LOVED this.

After lunch, we made Valentine pictures for daddy. They LOVED getting to get paint on their hands and feet, and I even let the 'baby'. She's soooo growing up! At 17.5mo, she's not so much a baby anymore. :(

They say "From the bottom of my heart (With their hands making a sort-of heart haha) to the tips of my toes... I LOVE YOU!"
**I must say, all the wonderful ideas above were from pinterest. I can't say how much I LOVE that site enough!!

Then the older two still wanted to paint, so I put the youngest down for a nap, and bravely let the other two go to town while I did an hour workout.

The final product

After we cleaned up the paint, I colored our dining room windows. If you have never used the crayola window crayons- they are awesome! My brother's girlfriend first told me about them when she used them on her car windows upon his return from a deployment. I then bought them when my husband returned, and wrote all over our car windows. Since I still have them, every now and then I'll write on the windows or mirrors for fun. The kids love seeing the writing on the windows. I might let them write one day ;-)

After the windows, I let them decorate the table to surprise Daddy while I took a shower. I also pulled out our fancy plates for dinner, as I wanted them to know it was a very special occasion.

It's covered in fake red rose petals and tons of pink and white hearts they cut out with my hole puncher. I had big plans for dinner... Meaning at 3:30 I thought "Hmm, what shall I make?" I got out some ground beef and figured I'd make a meatloaf because hubby loves that, or an enchilada casserole, because it's easy and yummy. Then he walked in the door. He said "Hmm, let's do something easy, like taco salad." I had a good amount of salad left over from Sunday, so we browned the meat, some onions, and mushrooms, threw it on the salad with black beans and cheese, and called it our meal. It was delicious.

Then we decided the kids probably wouldn't eat it, so we made them the traditional Valentine's Day meal- red heart pancakes.

But daddy is super cool and went all out, adding the last of the strawberries and some Cool Whip that we have no clue how it ended up in our freezer and we never eat. (Sorry, a bit blurry :(

While making dinner, we told the older two to keep the youngest happy, go play kitchen or something. I found the girls in the hallway, with a couch cushion, using it as a table.

That is her smile, saying "cheeeeese" with her eyes barely open, just like her mama. After dinner, my husband found this in the hallway. I'm unsure how we missed it prior to dinner, but our son learned a valuable lesson about how he IS old enough to make the mess, he IS old enough to clean it up.

And finally, here is baby girl yesterday in her Valentine's dress. She wore it yesterday because we went somewhere yesterday and didn't go anywhere today. ;-)

And wonderful sibling love.

A day in our life

Yesterday was a good day in our home. Actually, several have been lately. So I thought I'd blog about yesterday.

The older two kids slept until 7:45, and played nicely in Zach's room until 8:15, when I rolled out of bed. They played most of the morning, doing their own things. About 11:30, I got ready to work out, and daddy surprised us by walking in the door during lunch. I was so happy and thankful! The kids had been begging me to listen to an audio book we'd checked out from the library- The Polar Express. I know, it's a Christmas book. But Express starts with an "E". It was the book, with the CD along with it to listen to. I had no idea when I checked it out, but my kids LOVE LOVE LOVE listening to it. Sorry library, we may recheck this out and keep it the full 9 weeks haha! So daddy read that to them, then began reading them some other books, while I worked out. I was so thankful, because normally they're running around me, or whining the entire time I'm trying to get my exercise on.

Exercise? Oh yeah! I've been going about a week now. I started a fit club challenge with about 50 other moms through our MOPS group. I'm not in it to win it, but it's definitely giving me the motivation i need. I've been eating a LOT more fruits and vegetables, and feeling a lot healthier in just the week I've been eating better and working out.

Anyway, back to the day. At some point in the morning, my youngest kept throwing fits and tantrums. So bad that I had to go set her on her sister's toddler bed and walk away, letting her scream it out. Not sure what her problem was. At another point, my middle child got hurt, so I'm sitting in the den, holding her and comforting her while she's screaming in pain. (She wasn't that hurt, but she's all about "Go big") Baby sister comes in and sees me holding older sister, and LOSES it, trying to pull H out of my arms and throwing a complete tantrum when she didn't get her way. So I was left with 2 girls screaming and crying. My poor neighbors were probably about to call the police.

Speaking more of baby sister. She's 17 months old. She has started something new... tattling! How, you ask, does a 17mo tattle? She comes to me, pats me on the leg or arm saying "mom, mom, momma" several times until I look, and talks baby gibberish, and you can tell she's really upset, and points to where her siblings are. Yesterday she was pointing and I could tell complaining that H had shut the door to their room. Today it was that sister and brother took over the wii board and scale (Our pretend wii board for a kid to use while I work out... and no, the wii's not on, they're all just working out on their own at the moment, but it needs the wii board no matter what ;-)) I love that baby sister has such a spirit, and she cracks me up. Both girls are standing on the wii board at this very moment, leaning to the right, bending, stretching, etc. Love it! Oh, and baby sister I realize took her breakfast plate and put it on their little table, so she's going to grab a few cherrios in between. You need that extra energy to work out Good job baby girls!

Then there was the moment when I found all 3 kids in the bathroom, brushing their teeth. Zach had given out toothbrushes and toothpaste and even brushed baby sister's teeth for her, then let her brush her own... which lasted about 30 minutes as she carried her toothbrush throughout the house. The girl LOVES to brush her teeth.

I digress... So during naps, well, nap, only baby sister took one, the other two worked on a craft. Middle child gave me a pink oval sticker and said "Here mommy, this is for you. It's an (insulin) pump, a pink one, just like yours." So thoughtful! :) They both sat quietly at the table with foam Valentines stickers, and made Valentines for daddy (And decorated my candles). When daddy came home, they showed the cards to him, then said oh wait and ran away. I was making dinner and said "Daddy, go check on them please. It's too quiet." At that moment, they came out of Z's room. They had gotten wrapping paper, scissors and tape and wrapped their cards for him. They were sooo excited they told him to "Rip it open daddy!!!" It was precious to see their giving and excitement over giving to someone else. We then talked about how that was love (Since we're talking about love instead of a letter this week ;-))

Dinner came, and I attempted a new recipe- Enchilada Soup. Delicious, but super spicy. (I did make a few changes to the recipe of course.) The kids weren't fond of it since it was so spicy, so i said they could have a few more chips. My neighbor came up to talk to us for a minute. When she left, I realized the bag was gone! Silly kids. So we then cut up a pineapple for dessert, and watched as the kids all begged for more.

After dinner, we set about to quickly clean the house. And the kids did great! I set the timer and told them anything still on the den floor after 10 minutes was going to become mine for several days. They actually got it all cleaned up in 10 minutes! Happy momma! :) Bedtime went well, surprisingly without a fight from the oldest on wanting to sleep on the floor. Yes, our son wants to sleep on the floor all.the.time. Some times we let him, but not always. He tells us he doesn't sleep well on the floor, yet he wants to sleep there. Crazy kid!

Anyway, that was the highlights of yesterday. Never a dull moment, always something, often times sweet moments. Right now, they're all running through the house, and H is telling baby sister "Come on princess! Let's run fast!" If I say something like "Abby" Hannah corrects me and says "NO! She's Princess!" Thank you for treating your sister so special!

And I'll leave with this picture from the day before. Baby sister loves to climb, and pushed the chairs up to the bookcase. She saw the camera, so did her "Cheese"... which is more a "Eeeee" through her nose.

And a few of daddy with his sweet kids.

"Big" news

It's "D" Week in our home this week, meaning I have kids walking around on all fours barking and roaring like dogs and dinosaurs. I have beautiful pictures of Daniel and lions colored and a great "D" made in to a dinosaur.

They actually worked on this together, and you can sort of see their names. Hannah has a yellow "H" and purple "A" on the left, along with what looks like an M/N/W mixed. Zachary is at the top in black, spelled backwards because he insisted that's how he wanted to write it. Oh, and with an extra "H" thrown in. Not sure if this should concern me or not yet... But I was VERY impressed with how well he cut the shapes out, as he hasn't touched scissors in a loooooong time. (Like, over 8 months probably? They were hidden because of the 3 haircuts in 1 week sister did.) He found this sitting on my desk. I had told him what we WERE going to do with it yesterday, and today I found him cutting it all out. I pulled up the original on the computer and they'd run and look at it, then run back and put theirs together. I was so impressed with how well they were working together, and how well they did with it. The neck is on top of the head because there was no neck in the one online, so he glued the head down first. He asked where that was suppose to go and when I said it was the neck, this is what he did ;-)

My husband even read several "D" books to them tonight, about ducks, and dalmatians and other great things.

Luke 6:31- Do unto others as you would have them do to you- is getting repeated often. And I've even used it a few times in the "Would you want your sister to do that to you? Remember our "D" Bible verse? Let's not do that then!"

But I'll be honest. I haven't done nearly as much as I'd hoped. It's been a CRAZY week. Monday we walked to MOPS (as my husband is at school with our vehicle every day.) Tuesday I had two friends over to make bath salts for our Catholic Women of the Chapel meeting (CWOC), and one stayed until hubby got home. Wednesday I had another friend whom I hadn't seen in over a month over, and really enjoyed her company.

Today we walked again, this time to Bible study, and I became the "THIS HOUSE MUST GET CLEANED!!!" Mom. Ok, so it really just got picked up. And kind of swept. In fact, half of the dirt is still sitting in a pile under the broom, because I had hoped to finish sweeping it all eventually, and never did. Maybe tomorrow right? I did run the dishwasher and handwashed a few other dishes! Now that's a rarity for me. And then spent the evening reading homeschooling blogs. Well, I take that back. That was my PLAN, until I got a nice coupon from Joanns with FREE SHIPPING, and ended up purchasing some craft supplies, well, a lot of craft supplies, for the kids... then read a few blog posts, then decided to update mine!

And here we are. Then tomorrow, I'm watching my friends' kids for her in the morning. I'm praying that maybe it's warmish outside, (You know, a warm "high of 40") because man, my kids are going insane inside!! But today was pretty cold. I did NOT enjoy walking in the cold. It's suppose to rain tonight though, so we may not make it out :-( We'll have to see.

Oh, and the BIG news? Tomorrow is our FIVE YEAR ANNIVERSARY!!! WAHOO! I NEVER would have thought we'd be celebrating our 5th Anniversary with 3 kids between 1 and 4, having lived in SC, CO, FL, and now Germany, with a year long deployment in there, having lived in 5 apartments/houses (6 if you count the month in the hotel ;-)), become Godparents 3 times, been blessed to be aunt and uncle so many more times, see 6 of our siblings get married since us, gone to Rome, umm... yeah, not sure what else. As I said in my New Year Post, I'm excited to not have anything planned for 2012. (Should I knock on wood haha?)

Anyway, I am sooooooo thankful and blessed for the man in my life, my husband, my love, my companion and partner, my helpmate, my support, my world. God has taught us so much, and blessed us so much and all I can say is I am eternally thankful for the man God has given me.

Linky Link

Today is going to be a heavy link day, because I've been browsing around the internet a lot lately. If you're looking for homeschool preschool links, stay til the end, because I'm planning on posting what I've been using!

I recently read this article, which is AMAZING. Seriously, everyone should read it. Especially moms. It then led me to the writer's blog, Momastery. This blog is awesome. Like, I can't stop reading. She's real, she talks about motherhood like it really is. Like this post. It's perfect, and I couldn't stop laughing at it. And finally, she had this post in the Huffington Post about the SAHM vs the WOHM. Well worth the read too. Anyway, enough about her blog, but I'm sure I'll be reading it more in the future.

Then there was also this lovely piece by a woman some women I know, know. How's that for complicated haha? To the Mother With Only One Child. And my final non-homeschooling link is this one. It's about Mary, the Mother of God. It's a new site I've heard, and it talks all about Mary. I honestly haven't looked at it much, but I've heard it's awesome, so am kind of putting it here to remind myself to come back and look at it. ;-)

Now... homeschooling. I've been posting lots of pictures with our homeschooling on Facebook, and many people have asked me what websites I'm using, so here's a run down of a lot of them.

I started off with the idea from a letter a week, doing just that. However, I really wasn't a fan of everything there, even though many said they loved it. So I decided to stick with the idea of a letter a week, but do my own thing. First, I wanted to include scripture memory in for each letter. These are the two sites I found that had fabulous scripture help for children. Impress Your Kids and I Can Teach My Child.

Everyday, we talk about what our letter is, the scripture, and words that start with that. With "C" I gathered a bunch of things from around the house that started with "C" and put them in a 'grab bag' and let them pull them out and talk about how they started with "C". Then, because they LOVE writing on the dry erase board, I let them practice writing the letter on the board. My 4 year old definitely writes them better than the 3 year old, but I'm not going for perfection yet at all.

I also printed out cards with site words, from this website. I colored all of them, and hung them on the wall. We are only on "C" and my site word wall is very full, so we may have to figure out a different plan eventually. We also have a "learning wall", that we hang all of our Bible verses on, and the things they've made, like cotton ball clouds for "C".

I also like to throw in a Bible story or Saint story, or both, if I can. This site is great for Bible stories. The Catholic Toolbox. and if you're Catholic and never checked out her blog, Catholic Icing is FABULOUS for Catholic ideas and crafts, for Saints, Holy Days, Feast Days, etc. She also has a Catholic preschool Curriculum, but I didn't want to be tied in to one curriculum, and wanted flexibility for the preschool years. (Ut oh, what does that say about me and homeschooling in the future?? I've always said I'll use a curriculum when we get in to the serious years. ;-))

This site is AWESOME for craft ideas for kids. I mean, AWESOME. Preschool Alphabet.

Someone also told me that "Confessions of a Homeschooler" was a good website, but i haven't checked in to it yet.

Anyway, I hope you found some of these links helpful! In all honesty, I take one night on the weekend, and sit down with my computer and start googling for ideas. For example, I found this days of creation mini book just by googling. Not sure if this was the site I used, but it was the same book. The kids colored it and can easily read it to you and tell you what was made on each day. It's amazing to see a 3yo and 4yo tell the story of creation!