Sunday, August 11, 2013

A bit better

So, sometime between my last post, and today, things have gotten better in our house.

  • VBS ended-wahoo! It was great, but I was exhausted!
  • Master bedroom complete packed up
  • All 10 or so loads of laundry folded and put away
  • den picked up, even vacuumed and swept
  • dishes have been done daily
  • master bathroom was even cleaned!
  • kids' books boxed in to 2 boxes, with just a small handful left
  • all toys are now in their room instead of the house
  • A few other boxes were packed
So, I feel better about my overall house, may be a little less embarrassed now. Tomorrow my big goals are clean the kids' bathroom and sweep the kitchen/dining room and do a half-hearted job of mopping. Hopefully I'm up for it, since I spent the day with BH contractions. I know it's because I'm dehydrated. We went to a park yesterday afternoon with friends. It was soooo much fun. The men and teens played a lot of kick ball and football. Jon broke his toe (And has a PT test this week!!!), we ate a picnic potluck dinner and just really enjoyed the company. Unfortunately, it was a farewell to one of our friends. We're really sad to see them go. In good news though, we are buying their car, so we will have a 2nd car for the first time in 3 yrs! May seem a bit weird. 

Which reminds me, I'm feeling the need to buy a car seat, and grr! Baby is due in less than 3mo, which is a while still, but when you consider i have to have it shipped from the states, I need to get on it. It's frustrating. I had decided since I never really took the infant seat out of the car with Abby, I just wore her all the time, and my kids were usually only in them about 6mo, that I was going to skip the infant seat this time and just buy a convertible. Then Jon randomly said that we should buy an infant seat, for a few reasons, and I can't decide if the reasons are good enough or not. The only thing convincing me is that I'd keep baby warmer walking into/out of places in a seat with blanket or cover, than trying to get it in the wrap before going in. Not sure if that's enough of a reason or not though... 

Anyway, this is the big week. I'm nervous, excited, scared, excited, all kinds of things! It's going to be a busy week, but hopefully I can take it easy on Monday and Tues. And get rehydrated before the move ;-) 

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Keepin' It Real

So, I try to be honest. I have a very open home, people can come over whenever usually, and I don't care about the state of my house. You get what you get. Except this week. It's gotten bad here. Like REAL bad. Seriously, I'm the person who usually has unswept floors because i can't convince the 4yo to do her chore today and instead ended up putting her in bed. Or the dishes aren't done because as hard as I've fought the 5yo to unload them, they still haven't been done. (I know of ideas/consequences, etc. That's besides the point today.) Or just because we haven't been home. And you can come over and just accept that. And usually, one day during the week, it WILL get done, and look well enough...

But not this week. Every morning this week is VBS. WAHOO! We love it. It's great and exciting. And tiring. This momma thought that preK would be easier than the other grades so therefore easier on my pregnancy and my SPD (Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction- fun stuff!) It gets worse the more I walk. HA! Joke was on me. Actually, Pre K is much easier, as I only have 18 kids and not 40. But man, it's exhausting. And every night I need to review the Bible story and prepare for it, etc.

So yesterday I had plans to take a nap. I got 5 minutes in to the nap and a friend called in an emergency asking if I can watch her kids. Of course I said yes. But no nap. So today, at 3 pm, a storm was coming in. It was beautiful. Got all dark and super windy. Goodbye 90+ weather we had with no A/C. It was cooling off, and rain is great napping weather! I got in bed with Abby, and put Hannah and Zach in their beds. I woke up about 4:15. I don't think anyone else napped. I put a movie on for them, and crawled back in bed... To be awoken by a "Hey Babe" at 5:45!!! YIKES! So I got up and we jointly prepared a delicious enough dinner, that of course the kids didn't eat. Baths and bed and then I looked at my house.

And then I walked in to the office to uuhhh... yeah, prepare the Bible story. (And post on FB and send my mom a text or 5. and read this HILARIOUS article. ) I promise, I'm going to go do the dishes soon. Because my husband was so kind and thoughtful! He went for a run, and said that I should do the dishes while he ran, and then he'd help me fold laundry when he got back. Except, it's 9:15 now and I'm not ready to fold laundry at 9:15. Maybe it'll go faster together? Or we'll probably start talking, get distracted, and give up after one load. Here's the laundry currently. Just deal with it sideways bc I"m too tired to rotate. Yeah, the towels on the floor there- not sure if they're clean or dirty at this point.

 So my husband is home. I should probably get to this.... Yeah, pretty bad huh? At least I know i'll get that part done tonight. I HAVE to. We need dishes for tomorrow... and cereal just doesn't work on paper plates.
 I also REALLY need to mop. Like, I'm wearing flops all the time it's so gross... but really, we're moving next week, and it'll get really nasty then. Is it worth mopping for one week? When I have 0 energy, and I'm in pain, and I can barely get ^ those dishes done.

 And then there's the den... oh the den... I think I may just throw all that in a box when I feel ok enough to walk and bend down at the same time. But there may be food hiding in there that I'm unaware of...
Like I said, it's BAD. But, let's keep it real, and keep me humble. I know, I need to get to working. Or put my husband to work. But oh yeah, he has a PT test next week, so his evenings are busy making sure he's athletic enough to pass, even though he's old now and his requirements got much easier. I just need strength to get through this week and ignore my house, yet also pack, or have energy to get some of it cleaned up.  Lord hear my prayer!

Saturday, August 3, 2013

Great Family Day

Today was one of the greatest family day's we've had in a long time. We started to day out heading to Homburg to visit the flea market. I was VERY underprepared for what we were going to find. It was like one, huge, massive yard sale, table/car after table after table. We quickly learned that we had to be picky and not get something unless we REALLY wanted it. For one, we'd have to carry it and for two, there was so much to see. We walked away buying very little thankfully. We had a plastic Ikea table in yellow, but a whole bunch of random kids' chairs to go with it. Today, I found 3 yellow and orange Ikea chairs that match and fit perfectly with it, for €10! They were kind of a pain to carry back, but well worth it. I also bought a over -the-door shoe bag, in cute blue and nautical patterns. I'll either use it for the kids' room or for the homeschool room for school/craft supplies. Then we also bought some Pommes (German french fries, yum!) for the kids because they were starving. This whole part of the morning was making me happy.



Then we got back to the car, and ate our picnic lunch while driving to Hela. Hela is a huge hardware store, like Lowes or Home Depot. We'd never been, because there was another hardware store closer, but that one is closing down. Since we were just minutes from this one, we checked it out. FYI local friends- they have 3 isles of crafting stuff too! This part of the day was making husband happy.

Finally, I had heard about this great pirate ship park also in Homburg. I got the directions, but unfortunately, they weren't great because we were coming from a different direction. The directions said it was right next to the brewery and follow the castle ruins signs. So we did, and ended up at the castle. No pirate ship park, but a small playground. Since we'd promised the kids the park, we decided to hang out there for a bit. After a while, they wanted to climb the stairs. Next thing we knew, we were totally exploring the castle ruins and having a GREAT time.

At some point during the day, while driving, Hannah asked Jon to turn on the music. Right after he did, Hannah said "Mom, do you feel the baby moving now?" We've told the kids that the baby goes crazy every time music comes on (At Church, in the car, on tv, etc). We were cracking up. I told her no, not yet. But sure enough, about 1-2 minutes later, I did. We left, came home and changed real quick, stopping by the church for a minute. I took the girls to the bathroom where Hannah informed me that princesses don't poop or pee because she's never seen one poop or pee lol!

Then we met friends for dinner at a great restaurant Jon and I had been to once before. It has a rather large outside eating area, so we enjoyed the great evening outside. They have a small little playarea- sandbox, swing, play house, so after dinner, we let the kids go play while we talked as adults. It was DELICIOUS. We topped it off with dessert, ice cream for the kids and knodle for me! YUM! There was a wedding reception going on at the restaurant, and the kids had fun looking at how pretty the bride looked. We've also discovered today that when there's a wedding, everyone puts a white ribbon somewhere on their car, the antenna, rear windshield wiper, etc. I'd seen cars with them before, but tonight made the connection. As we walked in, I felt like everyone was staring at us. At first, it felt like it was because we weren't suppose to be there because of the wedding reception. But we asked and it was fine. As we left, they were all STARING again. I just didn't get it. We finally decided it was because we had 3 kids and a growing belly. That's just not common to Germans. Then we giggled that they were staring at us.

On our way home, even though it was already 8pm and we have to get up at 6:30, I managed to convince Jon to stop at the Blumen field and pick some flowers. Jon hadn't done it before, and the kids were beyond excited. They each got to pick one. I picked an orange, and Jon picked one more purple. As we were leaving, Hannah exclaimed "We need to get one for the baby!!!" So Jon declared the purple one was for the baby, as we were out of change. That made her happy. They really wanted Sunflowers as well, but we convinced them we'd come back and get flowers for the new house after we move.

All in all, it was an absolutely beautiful day spent with our family. We need more like it. I'm ready to go pass out. Tomorrow I have to go decorate for VBS, then it starts Monday. Please pray for VBS, and for me, as I"m already starting to have the 'wiped-out' feeling every afternoon. Then the following week we get our keys, wahoo! And somewhere in there, I do need to finish packing, eek!

Abby fell asleep on the way back to the house, before dinner. She took a good 30 min nap on the couch, laying like this. And she was a star today. Big white classes, denim skirt, and striped socks pulled all the way up with her sandals. She totally rocked the outfit!

Our new flowers.